John wrestles with life
John is a son, husband, father, grandfather and a United Methodist pastor. He strives to primarily build upon his God-given strengths while he uses them to work on one of his weaknesses. For him this is a mixture of both the power and the mercy of God.
Friday, April 29, 2011
The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership ...
From the church world I have read works by Bandy, Bonhoeffer, Burke, Callahan, Carter, Clinton, Clowd, Crabb, DeYmaz, Haughen, Herrington, Hybells, Job, Johnson, Maxwell, McManus, McNeal, Niebuhr, Oakes, Olsen, Richardson, Schnase, Shawchuck, Slaughter, Smedes, Tickle, Williamson, Wright, Yancey, and Young.
From the business world I have read works from Bennis, Blanchard, Boers, Buckingham, Collins, Drucker, George, Goleman, Greenleaf, Gerzon, Giuliani, Huckabee, Kopp, Kotter, Kouzes, Murphy, Neuhauser, Raines, Rock, and Senge.
Presently, I am reading John C. Maxwell's work in the title. The point is this--God uses various means to teach so never get tired of learning and apply what you learn to life as a whole.
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Reflections on Psalm 31 and some of Jesus' last words ...
I believe Jesus is referring to all of Psalm 31 in those final words in Luke. And, if he is, then he is also acknowledging that help is sure to come. Indeed this psalm ends in these words:
The Lord preserves the faithful,
but abundantly repays the one who act haughtily.
Be strong, and let your heart take courage,
all you who wait on the Lord."
In you, O Lord, I seek refuge;
do not let me ever be put to shame;
in your righteousness deliver me.
Incline your ear to me;
rescue me speedily.
Be a rock of refuge for me,
a strong fortress to save me.
You are indeed my rock and my fortress;
for your name’s sake lead me and guide me,
take me out of the net that is hidden for me,
for you are my refuge.
Into your hand I commit my spirit;
you have redeemed me, O Lord, faithful God.
You hate those who pay regard to worthless idols,
but I trust in the Lord.
I will exult and rejoice in your steadfast love,
because you have seen my affliction;
you have taken heed of my adversities,
and have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy;
you have set my feet in a broad place.
Be gracious to me, O Lord, for I am in distress;
my eye wastes away from grief,
my soul and body also.
For my life is spent with sorrow,
and my years with sighing;
my strength fails because of my misery,
and my bones waste away.
I am the scorn of all my adversaries,
a horror to my neighbours,
an object of dread to my acquaintances;
those who see me in the street flee from me.
I have passed out of mind like one who is dead;
I have become like a broken vessel.
For I hear the whispering of many—
terror all around!—
as they scheme together against me,
as they plot to take my life.
But I trust in you, O Lord;
I say, ‘You are my God.’
My times are in your hand;
deliver me from the hand of my enemies and persecutors.
Let your face shine upon your servant;
save me in your steadfast love.
Do not let me be put to shame, O Lord,
for I call on you;
let the wicked be put to shame;
let them go dumbfounded to Sheol.
Let the lying lips be stilled
that speak insolently against the righteous
with pride and contempt.
O how abundant is your goodness
that you have laid up for those who fear you,
and accomplished for those who take refuge in you,
in the sight of everyone!
In the shelter of your presence you hide them
from human plots;
you hold them safe under your shelter
from contentious tongues.
Blessed be the Lord,
for he has wondrously shown his steadfast love to me
when I was beset as a city under siege.
I had said in my alarm,
‘I am driven far from your sight.’
But you heard my supplications
when I cried out to you for help.
Love the Lord, all you his saints.
The Lord preserves the faithful,
but abundantly repays the one who acts haughtily.
Be strong, and let your heart take courage,
all you who wait for the Lord.
Monday, April 18, 2011
Choices: Making Right Decisions in a Complex World
The one chapter that speaks to me most today has this title: "When you can't be sure, be responsible". In this chapter he mentions rules from another ethicist, H. Richard Niebuhr, who stressed that responsible people are able to: (1) initiate action; (2) make a genuine response to the situation that they are in; and, (3) account for their actions.
In this work Lewis Smedes invites us to become discerning by seeing 'little, yet significant', things in life by taking our time in decision-making until we catch the insight that is being taught by experience. Such discernment "... takes practice, it doesn't come easy. It is a gift, and like all personal gifts it comes only with exercise. It is not a gut reaction; it comes with using our eyes, our ears, our minds, our imagination, our empathy and, yes, our intuition" (p. 97).
Good decisions indeed are made when enough time has been given for the decision-making process. Slow down, take a deep breath, get advice, and ponder. The world we live in does not allow us the time to do so but such is required for the best of all.
Monday, April 11, 2011
If I boast ...
Simply put, God is amazing in that he can work through both our strengths and our weaknesses.
- Ministry through weakness such as a widow, who has done well in facing grief, helping another widow.
- Ministry through weakness as a person with a lifetime disease assisting another under similar condition.
- Ministry through weakness as a person who found another person in their organization to cover areas of their weakness.
- Ministry through weakness as an individual working on strengthening one of their own weaknesses at a time while primarily building upon their strengths.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Max Lucado's book, The Gospel of Matthew
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Today's Life Journaling ...
Friday, April 1, 2011
Reading James F. Hopewell's book, Congregation: Stories and Structures
In his book, he invites pastors to learn about their congregation and community basically by listening to the stories that are told and, particularly, to those that are retold. In a very short fashion, his point is that the retold stories can help identify the values, essentials, identifications, integrity, characteristics, and hopes of a church and community.
Immediately, I recall the retold story of the chandelier that was falling on the preacher 'who jumped over the communion rail to avoid being hit' about sixty years ago during worship. Why was it retold quite a few times by different people at this local church?
I am taking time to read again his book that was published after his death to cancer. Such prepares me to listen well and ponder the deepest meaning of the story being told.