The United Methodist denomination like quite a few denominations is recognizing that experimenting in order to discover the best way(s) to relate to people is required. In essence, it has always been that way because no two individuals or groups are exactly alike. Even Jesus, the best of the best, used various ways to relate to people well. To one, a new acquaintance, he would listen first and then speak (John 4); and to another, a close friend, he would say (in my own words): "Come on now, you are not getting it" (Matthew 16:21-23).
Mike Slaughter, in his book Change the World: Recovering the Message and Mission of Jesus, speaks of his experience of rediscovering ways to reach people where they are as the Lead Pastor of Ginghamsburg United Methodist Church. It is worth the reading. It is a 118-page book that has discussion questions at the end of each chapter. To introduce you a bit to the contents the titles of the seven chapters are: missional vs. attractional; inclusive vs. exclusive; disciples vs. decisions; micro vs. macro; multiplication vs. expansion; mission vs. mortar; and courage vs. compliance.
The words of hope I see in his book that briefly tell the story of the beginning years of ministry at Ginghamsburg is a bit similar to the work of God through us at Arlington UMC in Nashville. Such are words of hope.
